Hopeless romantic

Can a hopeless romantic be married and happy? I am beginning to think not. I think we have this ideal in our heads and when reality crashes in we feel betrayed and hurt by the one who was supposed to be our ideal! By the time we recover it is to late to save what ever there was of the marriage. When both are hopeless romantics and both have different views well it just becomes hopeless. Specially when one is not willing to see that there is a problem.

Acceptance

How do you take yourself from the feeling of not being wanted and being depressed to acceptance. anyone with suggestions please pipe in. :)

Right now where I am at I feel that change in a huge way is the only way to escape the feelings I have. So this blag is not going how I wanted, because I first need to get out of this funk (deep dark abyss) and be able to live again.

Life is funny

Life is funny. You make choices that at the time seem the right choice, but then years down the road you wonder "was that the right choice?". It seems that there is always one or two choices that stand out as the turning points, that if you had chosen the other path things would be so much different. And it is hard not to think "What if...." What if I had done that instead of this. Sometimes your decisions come back to haunt you by way of an old friend/lover comes back into your life. You reminisce and realize that both of you look to the "one choice" as being where your lives went downhill and "If only...." If only you could go back in time. But now you are faced with a new choice, do you continue going down the path you are headed or do you veer off and try to capture what once "might" have been with the old.

Make a guess :)