His needs, Her needs.

His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley, Jr. is a book on building an affair-proof marriage. it focuses on what each partner needs in a relationship and what the other can do to give that to them. It is a good place to start, right :).

So for starters, The #1 thing a man needs is sex, yep. He wants it available always. But a women doesn't work like that at all, we need a few things in order to find sexual pleasure. So both partners need to understand these aspects and work to make it great for both. A women needs to be available for their husband and not just go through the motions. A husband needs to realize a wife needs touch, affection, words, through out the day so that his wife will be ready and wanting. It is amazing the human populace reproduce :o) we are such different creatures in so many ways.

This particular need we have covered fairly well, we could use a little refining, but for the most part hubby and I have this one down :o)